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dosthecat
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i think marriage is a decision, you stick by this person, until you die. simple. no custody battles, no child support, no arguing for years about how to split the house, none of that, just marry, love, then die. real simple.
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Fri Dec 08, 2006 6:33 pm |
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yeah i don't understand how people can make such a life changing decision, take the vows and then get divorced... and involve kids in it all  |
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Fri Dec 08, 2006 8:22 pm |
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I think people often confuse Love, Lust and Infatuation and as you stated Elliot many people marry on infatuation and then realise fault. Also people go through certain stages of relationships and work through different things and etc... but like you said its a life long decision.
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Fri Dec 08, 2006 9:02 pm |
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| Ads wrote: | | I think people often confuse Love, Lust and Infatuation and as you stated Elliot many people marry on infatuation and then realise fault. Also people go through certain stages of relationships and work through different things and etc... but like you said its a life long decision. |
Or they could of been madly in love, and just lost the spark! |
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Fri Dec 08, 2006 9:06 pm |
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True love doesn't really need a spark, only each other.
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Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:38 pm |
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| At the start of a relationship there has to be some kind of spark that makes them want to know the other person! THat is love - ! |
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Sat Dec 09, 2006 6:40 pm |
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| oh wow you have some kind of connection...you must be madly, deeply in love with them for the connection to happen *sarcasm* thats not true love at all, people could have 'sparks' with different people...so does that mean they are in love with every person they share some kind of chemistry with? |
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Sat Dec 09, 2006 6:53 pm |
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Hang on, every relationship has a spark, even if that relationship turns into love or not. Just with so called 'true love' the spark just wont go away. Isn't that how it works?
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Sat Dec 09, 2006 7:12 pm |
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Yeah, every relationship has a spark whether or not the spark stays (without struggle) seems to be key difference.
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Sat Dec 09, 2006 9:42 pm |
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hence...
any 'spark' does not equal love, a constant spark does? |
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Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:15 pm |
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i wouldn't say its a spark, as i wrote in the other post of mine (which no-one read) about greece, philia, eros, agape, preferably in that order. you have a deep friendship first, then a sexual attraction, then selfless compassion. otherwise you don't qualify for marriage. the other point i was trying to get at, is that with the high rate of divorce, and implied low rate of marital satisfaction, gets me wonderin why people ever get married at all.
people who want to wait after marriage for secks is understandable, but if you're already cohabiting and rootin like rabbits (as so many couples are), why bother?
think about the word spark, what a spark is. its a small flash of brightness that fades away almost immediately. |
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:07 pm |
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think about the word spark, what a spark is. its a small flash of brightness that fades away almost immediately. |
I concur. Let's get rid of that whole 'spark' thing shall we?
Marriage.. 'Tis a very big commitment, obviously. Marriages happen quicker than they should these days, I think. People are getting married at such young ages, who's to say that the person they're marrying is the right one? Marriage isn't something you should be able just jump in and out of whenever you feel. There's no law that says you have to marry the person you're in love with. Heck, I know adults that have been together for over a decade, but are not married. It isn't compulsory.
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:09 pm |
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How about couples that form One-Dark-Flame!!
lol..
Marriages = Oh *swears* she's preggers
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:47 pm |
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| Ads wrote: | How about couples that form One-Dark-Flame!!
lol..
Marriages = Oh *swears* she's preggers |
hahaha now you're the lame one
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:51 pm |
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Not lame! *closes mouth*.... Not preggers!! 
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:52 pm |
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| Kung-Fu wrote: | | I concur. Let's get rid of that whole 'spark' thing shall we? |
But i like the spark
Hey, if anyone needs to get married, I'll ask my dad to do it for you lot.
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O rly?
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 6:58 pm |
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| Ads wrote: | | Not lame! *closes mouth*.... Not preggers!! |
you're preggers?!? better go get married |
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Who's the fath-------... other half
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| Ads wrote: | | Who's the fath-------... other half |
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:09 pm |
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You wot
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:14 pm |
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i.....nothing
i think you're saying too much there adam, maybe keeping it 'hush hush' is a better idea |
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*shifty eyes*.. What does preggers mean 
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:19 pm |
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| Ads wrote: | | *shifty eyes*.. What does preggers mean |
look it up...somehow, i'm not giving you 'the talk' get someone else to |
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Mittens!! I call you up... debbie, tell me too 
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:23 pm |
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| no, i don't think so...you and shane can have a man to man discussion...i'd rather not be involved |
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- 1. preggers 311 up, 57 down
Absolutely retarded way of saying pregnant. If it's slang used mainly by guys, it's obviously gay ones who didn't get the chick knocked up in the first place, because that's how it sounds. No man should ever use that phrase...EVER.
Guy 1- "Damn man..."
Guy 2- "What's up man? What's wrong?"
Guy 1- "My girlfriend's preggers"
Guy 2- "What the fuck did you just say?"
Guy 1- "She's preggers...you know, preggers"
Guy 2- "I'm going to kick your ass right now"
Guy 1- "OK, I deserve it"
by ACG2x Jan 11, 2004 email it
- 2. preggers 55 up, 26 down
A term used by both Upper and Lower class British Citizens while talking to friends to claim that their life long partner is pregnant.
Examples Follow:
Upper Class:
Toff 1: Oh my wife is preggers you know.
Toff 2: Oh congratulations!!! I know you have been trying for ages, how far along is she?
Lower Class:
Chav 1: YA NO THAT BIRD I HOOKED UP WIT @ AMADAUS, I GOT HER RIGHT PREGGERS!!!
Chav 2: AH SHIT MAN, WHATCHA GUNNA DO?!?!
Chav 1: I CHANGED ME NUMBA N ME ADDRESS, SHE AIN'T GUNNA FIND ME. I'M NA LONGA AT 36A HIGH ST, I'M NOW AT 36B HIGH ST.
by Bored Badger UK May 8, 2005 email it
- 3. preggers 47 up, 31 down
A word that's fucking retarded and you should never use. It means pregnant.
Never say this word in public unless you want your ass kicked.
by why should i have a name? here May 19, 2005 email it
- 4. preggers 38 up, 20 down
a slang word for pregnant.
I shouldn't have fucked around, because I got preggers.
by sHiNtSuKi-PeNgUiN Jul 31, 2004 email it
- 5. preggers 15 up, 12 down
(adj.) Pregnant female, used mainly in the early stages of pregnancy, by moron future (dead-beat) dads. The word itself dates back to Victorian Britain.
Guess what? She's preggers!
by Kung-Fu Jesus May 12, 2004 email it
- 6. preggers 15 up, 14 down
Chav version of pregnant.
"Ah fuck! Me Young one's gotten herself preggers!" = "Oh no! My young daughter has gotten in the family way. (If we had a good name, it would be ruined by now.)"
by Scandal Jun 28, 2004 email it
- 7. Preggers 5 up, 19 down
(n.)
- the best or richest part of the lower stomach, extra fat/skin at the waist, often the result of excessive use of the beer bong and frequent visits to KFC
- a pregnant belly
(adj.)
- having preggers, wearing low-rise Sevens two sizes too small that pinches the fat at the waist
- being with child
(synonyms) - spare tire, potbelly, beerbelly, obesity
(used in a sentence) - (n.) That bitch's got preggers.
(adj.) That bitch is preggers.
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Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:26 pm |
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I'm involving you... 
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How utterly tedious.
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I read that as well  I demand 2 minutes 47 seconds of my life back
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