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Tue Jun 26, 2007 10:37 pm |
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| That Guy wrote: | | Because i realised i dont really need freiends they are good but i dont need them to be happy |
During my trevails on my routine visits to Thoih, I was scrolling through the same old crap when I stumbled across a post by young Robbie. And this particular quote particularly stood out to me, I'm just going to be analysing this quote as i'm typing, so whatever is said is just coming off of the top of my head.
Anyway, I've come to think that we all need someone to fall weak on. Some of us more than others but at the end of the day we always have to rely on someone. Sure, without you lot I probably wouldn't have had to deal with as much crap, but, I'm glad that I have. We all fight each other but we always reform because we realise that we really do need each other to make us happy. Everyone plays a vital role in someones life, therefore we, as friends really do make each other happy, at times.
We may think at times that we dont need our friends to make us happy, by friend I mean family too, but if we dont have anyone to come home to where is the happiness in that? People look forward to heaven, but if we have no desire to meet up with relatives and family, what is the difference between life and death? I know i'm deathly affraid of losing my friends and family, to some it happens suddenly and others its a pain wrenching process. But, by saying that friends and family dont make us happy, i'm saying that I dont see the point in really caring about life then.
I, strongly value the beauty of life. Every single day I think about the beauty of being alive; seeing different people of difference worlds and ethics, I realise that I love life, I love my family and I love my friends. So, I believe that regardless of whatever we believe in, we must realise the importance of friends. Because, when everything falls apart, its our friends that help put everything back together again.
Live, love and be happy.
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Tue Jun 26, 2007 10:47 pm |
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Well, contrary to belief I value my mates very much and I would be less fortunate without them all. They all have contributed a lot to the success of my life.
There you go
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Wed Jun 27, 2007 9:52 am |
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yes but before i came to youth i didnt really have good friends like the ones you can talk about stuff to, i was like friends with bronson ...
they do help lost though i never said they didnt i merely said that i dont need them to be happy they help heaps
thats just something ive been telling my self to get me out of this little depressed rip so i dont need people to talk to to be happy i have him :p and he loves me more than anyone else ever could
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Wed Jun 27, 2007 11:25 am |
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| yeah, friends aren't essential but i reckon they help heaps... because robbie, god provides people to us that he can work through to make us happy, and though alot of the time we don't even see the connection between ol' mate matty dilkins and the Father's master plan, it's still pretty spiffy having a good mate. |
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Wed Jun 27, 2007 11:38 am |
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yeh ... thats what i was getting at
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 12:10 pm |
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well after recent events ill put a different spin on this
you can be happy without them if you are say doing something fun that you like and whatnot
But as soon as you start felling down doing something on your own isnt going to cheer you up much if you do try and get out of this slump trust me it wont work !
but if you surround yourself with osme friends youll be happy and laughing in no time or atleast not emo anymore ;P
but i now value my friends lotsly more highly 
without them my life would be highly boring and not worth going through
but i do have them so im happy
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 12:47 pm |
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I would be lying if i said that I could be happy without my friends.
I would find ways to entertain myself sure, but that's not happiness. Happiness is sharing a bond with someone, going through the good times and the bad times. Caring for someone based on who they are and not what you're going to get in return.
I believe that we have an excellent group. So many of us just have some amazing positive qualities and are all just so positive and supporting. I'm thinking last week when Grandad died everyone just jumped to my aid, im thinking when Jariah and Josh broke up, just the overwhelming support that he got.
Everyone needs someone else to fall back on when things go bad. Even though some people wouldn't think so (I don't know why) but I need help all the time. Even with little things to get over, even if its just to talk to someone about it or to express an idea, I still need my friends.
Sure I get the poo's with some of you because I don't agree with somethings that you say or do and a lot of the time I get frustrated because no one wants to do what I want to do a lot of the time but even with all of that I wouldn't change a thing. It's who you are and thats all I want. I'm so thankful for our group and my family. There's never a day that I don't need them and I'm just so thankful for what I have. It's you guys that have led me to where I am now and I thank you all for that.
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 9:25 pm |
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| Robbie wrote: | | you can be happy without them if you are say doing something fun that you like and whatnot |
Examples? Please, i'm interested.
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 9:36 pm |
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what ? me personally or what?
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 9:47 pm |
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I think he meant time away from them, not complete solitude.
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Sun Jul 01, 2007 9:51 pm |
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yeh ok whatever:P
well say im at home stuck or something il probably grab my bow and arrows and shoot at stuff that always make me happy grab a book /bible listen to music even though its not as good as doing that stuff with friends butt ill have to msn you about my growing up
i didnt excatly have friends that i could see besides school
why are you always interested in me i dont have that much to say most of the time (im not that interesting )the attention is ok but i dont get it who wants to listen to me :p
i still cant spell (how do i use this spellcheck on thoih)?
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Mon Jul 02, 2007 1:09 pm |
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Because you're the one who has said it and it has really interested me (the way you think).
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